Current provisions of the post-9/11 GI Bill allow any retired military member with ten years of service to transfer his/her education benefits to allow his/her spouse or children to go to college. More than 38,000 military children and spouses went to college this past year with this support. As of today, 145,000 service members have applied to transfer GI Bill benefits to 331,000 children and spouses, as reported by Tom Philpott in a September 17 aarticle in Stars and Stripes.
A blog based on the novel, PENELOPE'S DAUGHTER, which is dedicated "to all the children left behind when fathers and mothers go off to war"
When my father, Odysseus, and his men sailed off to the Trojan War, they were confident their gods favored a quick victory. Instead, the siege of Troy lasted ten years. After Troy fell, the survivors made their way home to Sparta, Mycenae, Pylos, and elsewhere in the ancient Peloponnese. Neither my father nor any of his troops arrived home with the rest. We waited for years as the news grew worse. Odysseus was dead, we were told,or imprisoned, or, worst yet, he had married another woman and abandoned my mother Penelope, my brother Telemachus, and me.
If he is alive somewhere, his thoughts may wander to Penelope and Telemachus, but he won’t be thinking of me. I am the daughter he doesn’t know exists. Odysseus went off to the Trojan War when his son, Telemachus, was barely old enough to walk. His wife, Penelope, was a teenage bride, and is now a young wife, mother, and queen who has to try to rule Ithaca without him.
I was born seven months after he left. I am a hero’s daughter and a princess of his realm, but I have lived my entire life without a father. I’m nineteen now, and still waiting.
All over the world, and throughout history children grow up as I have. This website will focus on the children of those men and women who have gone off to fight America's wars, and provide information and resources for all who care about military families and want to help.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
A Cloud Over the GI Bill
Current provisions of the post-9/11 GI Bill allow any retired military member with ten years of service to transfer his/her education benefits to allow his/her spouse or children to go to college. More than 38,000 military children and spouses went to college this past year with this support. As of today, 145,000 service members have applied to transfer GI Bill benefits to 331,000 children and spouses, as reported by Tom Philpott in a September 17 aarticle in Stars and Stripes.
Friday, September 17, 2010
Gone Fishin'
BOSS, along with the Hearts Apart program, hosted the annual event.
"It shows that there's a community that supports them whether the family member is gone or temporarily on deployment," Ruth Gonzalez, Army Community Service Relocation Readiness Program manager, said. "We rely on the military as our family."
Adriana Figueroa, 9, said she enjoyed being around other Soldiers, who reminded her of her deployed dad. Pfc. Richard Patton, BOSS and B Company, 1st Battalion, 11th Aviation Regiment member, said he enjoys sharing his love of the sport with youngsters.
"I love to fish and I love teaching kids to fish," he said. "It takes their minds off (their parents being deployed)."
"My children have been bugging me to go fishing," one mother said, reiterating how important it is that her son “gets to do an activity that he relates to his dad. We really appreciate the single Soldiers giving up their Saturday." Here's a link to an article about the day at the lake.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Making Military Children Part of "The Big Day"
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
The "New Normal" at School?
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
The New Normal?
Educators, administrators and social workers will come together in Springfield, Illinois next month for an institute entitled “Living in the New Normal: Helping Children Thrive in Good and Challenging Times." Brought about by concerns about military children dealing with illness, injury, or death of a parent, the "Living in the New Normal," or LINN, initiative was developed by experts in the fields of trauma and grief, resiliency, health care, and child development. LINN encourages families to develop coping skills, supports homefront efforts on behalf of children, and provides educators and others with information of use in helping children be resilient and courageous during times of uncertainty, trauma, and grief. This is good, of course, and all such efforts are important. Still, I can't help but be saddened by the resignation that seems to be part of calling this "the new normal." Do we really want to think that way? Once we've accepted children's uncertainty, trauma, and grief as byproducts of their parents' military service, to what low will the next "new normal" slip? |